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Doug Phillips of Vision
Forum has written
several articles about Shelby's fight with the leiomyosarcoma
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A
Very Special Girl Who Needs Your Prayers |
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Dear
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Every
community has its bright shining star—-a special
person who radiates joy and life and hope to everyone
they meet. In our community that person is a twenty-two
year old young lady named Shelby Kennedy. It was
my pleasure to serve as one of her pastors for nearly
five years before her family relocated membership
in our sister church in Fredericksburg, Texas. I
can report that I have rarely ever met a woman with
as radiant a Christian testimony, who better honors
her father and mother, or who better understands
the meaning of Christian sacrifice. For most of her
life Shelby has accompanied her father and mother
to some of the roughest parts of Mexico, building
homes for the indigent, helping local churches and
teaching the Gospel to young girls, many of whom
are already mothers in their early teens. Those who
meet her never forget her. |
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Last
week Shelby was diagnosed with a rare disease called
leiomayosarcoma. She already has a tumor approaching
the size of a volleyball. Through the tests so far
it appears the sarcoma has spread to her right shoulder
and a few other spots in her pelvic area. The sarcoma
has already eaten away a good part of the bone in
the pelvic area. Man’s statistical analysis
tell us that only small percentage of people in her
condition survive. But we know that we serve the
God who defies statistics, who controls life and
who loves those who faithfully serve Him. |
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Shelby
knows this too. At every step of the way Shelby has
rejoiced in the Lord. While those who love her weep
in her presence (including yours truly), Shelby spends
her time comforting them with words of hope from
Holy Scripture. She speaks with joy of the hundreds
of emails she has received and kept for her scrapbook.
She constantly praises God for His grace and mercy.
The other day Shelby wrote to some of us: |
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I
don’t know how to explain the love
I feel that has been showered on me constantly.
I feel as if I am wrapped tightly in the
Fathers loving, gentle arms, and He is carrying
my weary body through this test in life. |
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Shelby
is taking pain medication for the extreme pain, which
means she is only able to be up and awake a few hours
a day, but she spends all of that time rejoicing
in Christ and feasting on His word. When she is awake
she needs to use a wheel chair most of the time and
has minimal energy, but what energy she has is focused
on proclaiming Jesus Christ. Already her testimony
of hope is sparking a spirit of revival in those
around her as they see Gospel Christianity lived
out in the midst of a fiery trial. |
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A
few days ago Shelby (who has grown her hair long
past her waist—-as have each of her sisters)
had a hair-cutting party (in anticipation of the
chemo and radiation therapy she will be receiving)
during which she cut her lovely hair to preserve
it, perhaps for a wig. Her sisters joined her in
an act of solidarity by cutting their longer-than
waist length hair as well, which they had grown over
a lifetime. |
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At
this point every day counts. The need for medical
intervention is significant, but there are delays
with the hospitals that mean that Shelby has to wait
longer than we would like for treatment. In addition,
the Kennedy family lacks the resources to cover their
medical expenses and needs help. This is where you
come in to play. |
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Imagine
for just one moment that you were a father who was
watching your bright shining star suffer under the
pains of a crippling and potentially fatal disease.
It is difficult for many of us to think in these
terms, but we must. Perhaps tomorrow it will be us.
Certainly we would want the body of Christ to rally
to our side and stand with us in our hour of need. |
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All
of this to ask you to consider two things: First,
would you commit as a family to praying for Shelby.
Here in San Antonio, she is known by thousands and
loved by all. In Mexico, she is known by thousands
and loved by all. There are many praying for her,
but we know how the Lord loves to hear the prayers
if his saints. We are asking for you to help us ask
our Heavenly Father for mercy. |
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Second,
would you consider donating to help the medical expenses
of this family. The expenses are very high and their
inability to cover these expenses has been a great
challenge. My local church, the Boerne Christian
Assembly, has agreed to help the family by getting
checks through to them. You can either write a check
directly to Ken Kennedy, or to the Boerne Christian
Assembly, and we will see that Shelby gets the help
directly. Send the checks to Vision Forum and we
will pass them on. Please write on the envelope “For
Shelby Kennedy.” |
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You
can learn more about Shelby at: |
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Thank
you for considering our beloved Shelby through your
prayers and giving. |
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Persevero,
Doug Phillips |
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Update
on Shelby Kennedy |
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Dear
Brothers and Sisters in Christ: |
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Many
of you have faithfully prayed for this dear girl
who, last October, was diagnosed with a rare form
of sarcoma. Many of you have also generously given
to help cover the growing number of medical bills.
I know that both of these things have been a blessing
to the Kennedy family, and that they are very grateful
for your support. After six rounds of chemotherapy
with no apparent benefit, Shelby decided to pursue
alternate methods of treatment. For the last several
weeks, Shelby has been in Tulsa, Oklahoma, undergoing
some testing, as well as various nutrition-related
treatments. While there have been some improvements,
Shelby continues to experience constant pain and
has very little energy. |
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Following
is a recent update that we received from the Kennedys: |
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On
Tuesday we had a cat-scan done and comparing
it to her last cat-scan, her tumor has continued
to grow. Because the tumors are still gaining
ground, Dr. Robbins has recommended that she
go home to San Antonio and begin radiation
therapy, along with the supplements she is
now taking. Hopefully the radiation will affect
the cancer long and hard enough to give us
more time working from the nutritional end. |
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Tomorrow
we have some more appointments here at the
clinic, till about noon, then we will start
heading home. |
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Please
pray for our trip home. Shelby is able to
lay down in the car but can become very uncomfortable
while traveling. Also pray that the radiation
will affect the cancer and really knock it
back. We will be meeting with a radiologist
in San Antonio on Monday morning at 9:00.
Thank you so much for continuing to pray
for Shelby. |
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I
urge you to uplift Shelby in your prayers, and to
consider how you can help with the growing number
of medical bills that continue to pile up for the
Kennedy family. |
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For
more information about Shelby Kennedy, and how you
can pray for her, click
here. |
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To donate
to the Life and Liberty Fund, click
here. One hundred percent of all donations go to
help Shelby Kennedy and others like her. |
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Shelby
Kennedy's Homecoming
(November 6, 1981 - May 31, 2005) |
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Precious
in the sight of the LORD is the death of his saints.
(Psalms 116:15) |
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One
of the blessings of the life of Christ is Christian
community — that glorious network of friends
and family in geographic and spiritual proximity
whose relationship one with another is God’s
appointed means for encouraging the saints, building
covenant-keeping assemblies and households, and advancing
the glorious mission of the Church. Within such communities,
our merciful Lord sometimes raises up a few special
individuals whose life of servanthood, principle,
and love is of such a quality as to win them an unusual
admiration and affection from the entire community. |
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In
our portion of the San Antonio Christian community,
that bright shining daughter of hope was Shelby Kennedy.
Seventh of thirteen children to Ken and Deborah Kennedy,
Shelby’s life was dedicated to her family’s
missionary outreach called Only a Servant Ministries.
Loved by thousands who knew her, Shelby will be remembered
for her indefatigable optimism in the sovereignty
of God, her radiant evangelistic spirit, her self-sacrificing
servanthood, her effervescent spiritual joy, and
her ferocious loyalty to her mother and father. |
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Shelby
was transported into the bosom of her savior Jesus
Christ on May 31, 2005, after a heart-wrenching,
eight-month battle with a rare and unusually brutal
from of cancer. |
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Shelby
was known and loved by people in four nations. It
was my great honor to serve as one of her church
shepherds for a number of years, and to count her
my friend. In the eight years that I have known Shelby,
I never remember a time when she was not happy, radiant,
grateful, and explicitly praising God. Many thousands
of others would testify the same. This was a one-in-a-million
Christian who had an unusual spiritual gift of faith. |
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She
brought hope to thousands through her mission work
with her family throughout the world in regions as
diverse as Mexico and South Africa. But Shelby’s
heart always pointed to Haiti where she worked alongside,
and on behalf of, her mother and father by personally
administering Christian schools, participating in
discipleship evangelism, and managing significant
food distribution efforts for the destitute and needy. |
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Shelby
was a woman who passionately and desperately loved
her two fathers. Her ferocious loyalty and honor
to her earthly father was only exceeded by her absolute
confidence, love, and devotion to her Heavenly Father.
At a time when America’s Christian community
is rife with self-serving sons, daughters, and men
in the spirit of Adonijah, Shelby was known to all
as an honoring daughter who modeled the Fifth Commandment.
Her ferocious loyalty to her parents, to her convictions,
and to her faith were among her defining character
qualities. Shelby was one “daughter of Sarah” who
would never exchange her rich spiritual inheritance
for a mess of pottage. Because she honored her mother
and father, because she remained loyal to her Heavenly
Father — “it was well” with Shelby,
even in the midst of great suffering. |
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Shelby’s
one unfulfilled dream was to marry a godly man like
her father. This was not God’s will for her.
It was, however, God’s will to allow Shelby
to accomplish more for the Kingdom of God in her
twenty-three years than most men could hope to accomplish
in two lifetimes. In fact, Shelby goes to be with
the Lord with a unique testimony that is reserved
for only the smallest handful of recorded Bible heroes
and modern Christians — Shelby, a sinner saved
by grace, lived a life without regret, and without
known blemishes on her testimony. To put it another
way, there are no “buts” after Shelby’s
name. No one says, “Shelby was a Christian,
but...”, or, “Shelby had a good witness,
but...”, or, “It is just too bad that....:” Shelby
Kennedy was the finest example of servanthood, faith,
and devotion that most Christians will see in their
lifetime. |
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Some
might say: Phillips, this is just kind posthumous
hyperbole. To that I respond: Speak to any in our
community who knew this girl and discover that these
sentiments are unanimously held by one and by all
who knew her. |
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Shelby’s
eight-month battle with cancer was unusually difficult.
She was diagnosed with a very rare and unusual sarcoma
about which little is known. Those around her described
her suffering as simply excruciating. By the time
of her death, much of her remaining 90 pounds was
the weight of the tumors which relentlessly attacked
her and had spread throughout her body. Despite this
fact, Shelby remained hopeful, trusting in God and
utterly without complaint until the moment of her
homecoming to Glory. |
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Shelby’s
passing into eternity will never be forgotten by
those who stood beside her. During the final hour
of her life, Shelby was at home surrounded by mother,
father, brothers, and sisters. They sang hymns and
praises, read Scriptures, and offered her words of
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Her
last spoken words were to her father: “I love
you, Dad.” |
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Earlier
this year, eighty-four-year-old Marine Silver Star
Bob Boardman addressed a special memorial service
at the Headwaters Ranch to the veterans of the Second
World War. He made a stunning point, apropos for
us to remember at the death of our sweet sister. |
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Boardman
said this: “When it comes time for you to die,
make sure all you have to do that day is to die.” |
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I
will never forget May 31 as the day that Shelby was
called to be with the Lord. I was celebrating my
fortieth birthday with my family and friends in North
Carolina when the news arrived. Though the Phillips
family was separated from the Kennedys by more than
a thousand miles, we were absolutely sure of one
thing — Shelby Kennedy died with no loose
ends, no regrets, no unfinished business, and no
doubts. All she had to do on May 31, 2005 was to
die. |
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We
laid Shelby to rest on Saturday. Her spirit is now
with the Lord, but her mortal body remains in Texas
where it awaits the resurrection of the dead. During
my comments at the memorial and gravesite, I shared
the following Scriptures of comfort. They mean a
great deal to me. |
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For
I reckon that the sufferings of this present
time [are] not worthy [to be compared] with
the glory which shall be revealed in us. (Romans
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But
I would not have you to be ignorant, brethren,
concerning them which are asleep, that ye sorrow
not, even as others which have no hope. For if
we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even
so them also which sleep in Jesus will God bring
with him. For this we say unto you by the word
of the Lord, that we which are alive [and] remain
unto the coming of the Lord shall not prevent
them which are asleep. For the Lord himself shall
descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice
of the archangel, and with the trump of God and
the dead in Christ shall rise first Then we which
are alive [and] remain shall be caught up together
with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in
the air and so shall we ever be with the Lord.
Wherefore comfort one another with these words.
(1 Thessalonians 4:13-18) |
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Doug Phillips
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